What’s the Best Diet for Preventing Mom Fatigue?

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Why You’re Always Tired (And Why It’s Not Just the Baby)

Let’s be real, mama. If you’re running on fumes and wondering how you can feel so drained by 10 a.m., you’re not alone. Between interrupted sleep, chasing little ones, and carrying the mental load of motherhood, it’s easy to feel like exhaustion is just part of the job. But here's the truth: fatigue isn’t something we just have to live with. A big part of your energy level comes from what you're feeding your body, and whether your hormones and minerals are supported or totally out of whack. This post is here to guide you through the connection between diet, energy, enzymes, and hormones, and give you practical ways to nourish your body as the vessel of strength God designed it to be. As 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 reminds us, our bodies are temples - sacred spaces designed by God. That means how we care for them matters deeply, not just for our energy, but for our purpose.

The Connection Between Diet and Energy Levels

Your body is like a beautiful, complex system. When you feed it well, it thrives. When you don't? Hello mood swings, sugar crashes, and exhaustion! Our diets have a direct impact on our energy because food fuels every single system in the body. When you're low on key nutrients or consuming inflammatory foods (I’m talking foods with added sugars and processed junk), your energy tanks and your hormones start firing off SOS signals. Over time, those small imbalances can lead to serious fatigue.

How Nutritional Deficiencies and Hormonal Imbalance Cause Fatigue

Fatigue in mothers often stems from a combination of nutrient deficiencies and hormonal imbalances. Essential nutrients like iron, vitamin B12, magnesium, and vitamin D play pivotal roles in energy production and overall vitality. Deficiencies in these nutrients can lead to anemia, impaired metabolism, and reduced oxygen delivery to tissues, all of which contribute to persistent tiredness (Paloma Health). Hormonal fluctuations, particularly in estrogen, progesterone, and cortisol, further exacerbate fatigue. Chronic stress can elevate cortisol levels, disrupting sleep and leading to adrenal fatigue (Longevita Medical). Insulin imbalances can also spike and crash your blood sugar, leaving you feeling wiped out. The Happily Hormonal Podcast offers great insight into how these imbalances manifest in everyday mom life and what to do about them; I highly recommend checking our her episodes!

But there's more going on beneath the surface. Even if you're eating healthy, your body may not be absorbing those nutrients efficiently. That’s where enzymes come in.

Pineapples, papayas, kiwis, mangos, avocados, and bananas all contain natural digestive enzymes.

Understanding Enzymes: Your Body’s Unsung Heroes

Enzymes are specialized proteins that act as catalysts in the body, helping speed up chemical reactions necessary for digestion, energy production, and hormone synthesis. Digestive enzymes, for example, help break down food into nutrients your body can absorb and use. If enzyme levels are low - due to stress, poor diet, or underlying conditions - your body struggles to break down food properly, leading to bloating, fatigue, and nutrient deficiencies. Enzymes are also crucial for metabolic and hormonal processes, meaning they play a quiet but essential role in how energized you feel everyday (Cleveland Clinic).

Here are a few ways you can support enzyme function:

• Eat plenty of raw fruits and vegetables (like pineapple and papaya, which contain natural enzymes)

• Avoid ultra-processed foods, which burden digestion

• Consider a high-quality digestive enzyme supplement if needed (talk with your provider)

• Chew your food thoroughly - digestion starts in the mouth!

The Happily Hormonal Podcast touches on this often - when your digestion is off, your hormones follow. Prioritizing enzyme health means better absorption and less fatigue.

Now, here's the thing, mama - it's not just about what you're eating or how you're breaking it down. It's also about the quality of the food going into your body. Let’s talk about why even the healthiest foods today might not be packing the same nutritional punch they used to.

Why Our Fruits and Veggies Aren’t What They Used to Be

Once upon a time, a carrot was a carrot - rich in nutrients pulled up from vibrant, mineral-rich soil. But decades of industrial farming have taken a toll on the very ground we grow our food in. Today, our fruits and vegetables are often grown in depleted soils using high-yield farming methods that prioritize speed and appearance over nourishment. And it shows.

Research from the University of Texas found that the nutrient density of garden crops has significantly declined since the 1950s. We're talking less iron, calcium, vitamin C, and even protein. These days, you might need to eat double the spinach your grandmother ate to get the same benefits (Scientific American).

Why is this happening? Modern farming practices often strip the soil of its life - rotating fewer crops, overusing chemical fertilizers, and spraying with pesticides that disrupt the delicate microbial balance under our feet. These microbes are vital for transferring nutrients from the soil to the plant, and without them, we’re left with produce that looks pretty but lacks the deep nourishment our bodies crave.

The National Geographic calls this an alarming trend, and as mamas trying to build strength and resilience through real food, it’s something we need to be aware of. It’s not about fear - it’s about wisdom. The more we understand, the better we can steward our families’ health.

This doesn’t mean we give up on fresh produce. It means we shop smarter, grow when we can, support regenerative farming, and choose organic or heirloom varieties when available. And when we do get those fruits and veggies into our kitchens? We use them well - raw, gently cooked, and paired with healthy fats and minerals to boost absorption.

And here’s something I find both beautiful and affirming - God actually built soil care and land rest into His original design. In Leviticus 25:4, He instructs His people to let the land rest every seven years, giving the soil time to renew itself. It’s called the Sabbath year, and it wasn’t just practical - it was sacred. And science today shows it works. Rested land grows more nutritious food and supports healthier ecosystems. I can’t help but smile when modern research catches up to ancient wisdom. It’s just another reminder that God’s ways are good - for our bodies, our food, and the earth that sustains us.

But don’t let all of this overwhelm you, mama. Even with the challenges of modern food systems, there’s still so much you can do to nourish your body well. Once we understand what’s missing, we can get intentional about putting it back in - starting with the nutrients your hormones and energy systems are craving most.

Key Nutrients for Energy & Hormonal Balance

1. Iron – Transports oxygen through the blood. Deficiencies in iron can cause extreme fatigue, brain fog, and low immunity. Try adding grass-fed beef, lentils, spinach, and pumpkin seeds to your diet to boost your iron intake (Kaia Fit).

2. Vitamin B12 & Folate – Vital for red blood cell production and nervous system health. Deficiencies can cause anemia and mood swings. Choose eggs, leafy greens, and consider a methylated B-complex to add to your diet (Nature Made). Something to keep in mind: Folate is the natural form found in food; folic acid is synthetic and not always well-absorbed, especially for those with MTHFR gene variants. Look for L-methylfolate instead.

3. Magnesium – Involved in over 300 body processes. Magnesium helps with energy, muscle recovery, and hormone balance, and is also great for helping you sleep. Load up on almonds, dark leafy greens, black beans, and bananas to add magnesium to your diet. You can also add a high-quality magnesium lotion to your self-care evening routine - I love adding magnesium this way!

4. Vitamin D – Needed for bone health, immune function, and a stable mood. You can get Vitamin D from sunlight, salmon, and fortified plant-based milks (Everyday Health).

5. Sodium, Potassium, Calcium & Magnesium – These four minerals are critical for hormonal balance and cellular energy. I know I mentioned magnesium above but it’s worth repeating! According to the Happily Hormonal Podcast, getting enough of these minerals daily can make a huge impact on fatigue, energy, and hormone repair. Focus on:

• Sodium – Sea salt or mineral salt

• Potassium – Bananas, coconut water, sweet potatoes

• Calcium – Yogurt, leafy greens, sesame seeds

• Magnesium – Almonds, cacao, black beans

But even with the right nutrients, we have to ask—what’s getting in the way of using them properly? For many moms, the biggest culprits are sugar and processed foods. And yes, I’m looking in a mirror when I say this because I have a major sweet tooth and I struggle greatly with how much sugar I consume. This is something I am currently working (and have been working on for quite some time!). A few things that I’ve found that help me - always have easy, healthy snacks on hand. Think cashews, clementines, or a homemade snack that you can manage in moderation. For example, I’ll bake a batch of oatmeal chocolate chip cookies on Sundays and these will last all week. You can decrease the amount of sugar and the quality of sugar (and salt) you use, and often, I’ll only eat 3-4 cookies a day instead of the entire bag of Dove Milk Chocolate (yes, I have done this - many times - it’s a struggle). I also will make lactation balls and will snack on these if I’m craving chocolate and these are great to meet that craving - they have peanut better, greek yogurt, flax seed, mini chocolate chips, oatmeal, protein powder, and more in them, and they’re great for lactation and adding protein to your diet.

The Problem with Processed Foods and Sugar

The Standard American Diet is loaded with added sugars and chemicals that aren't allowed in many other countries. These ingredients can disrupt your blood sugar, inflame your body, and throw your hormones completely off balance. Over time, that toxic load contributes to burnout. Cravings are often a sign of imbalance, not weakness. When you're constantly reaching for caffeine or sweets, your body may be begging for magnesium, healthy fats, or protein. The Happily Hormonal Podcast often talks about how processed foods and sugar aren’t just “empty calories”—they actively mess with your blood sugar, spike cortisol, and leave your hormones scrambling to compensate. (Can you sense a pattern here about how to find trusted sources that provide quality, accurate information? I have a few podcasts that I regularly listen to that are always helping me learn more about my body, parenting styles, relationships, God, and more. I highly recommend doing your own research and finding these sources that fit your lifestyle and needs!)

This brings us to a powerful tool in understanding our bodies—our cravings. Rather than shaming ourselves, we can get curious and learn what our cravings are really asking for.

Understanding Cravings: What Your Body Is Telling You

Cravings can actually be a cry for help from your hormones. Instead of reaching for another cookie (like I said, I’m looking in a mirror), try understanding what your body might actually need:

1. Coffee → May signal adrenal fatigue or dehydration → Try: coconut water or a protein-rich breakfast

2. Chocolate → Often a magnesium deficiency → Try: almonds, cashews, or a magnesium supplement

3. Sugar → Blood sugar crash → Try: apple slices with nut butter or a boiled egg

4. Baked goods → Could be a serotonin dip → Try: bananas, fermented foods, or oats

5. Chips or fries → Sodium or stress → Try: olives or roasted chickpeas with sea salt

6. Ice cream → Calcium or emotional comfort → Try: Greek yogurt with berries or coconut milk smoothies

7. Bread → Carb crash → Try: sweet potatoes or whole grain rice

8. Cheese → Fat deficiency or low dopamine → Try: avocado or omega-3 rich foods

9. Soda → Caffeine or phosphoric acid addiction → Try: sparkling mineral water with citrus

10. Energy drinks → Exhaustion and sugar crash → Try: herbal adaptogen teas or electrolyte packets

When we start tuning into our cravings instead of battling them, we gain insight into what our bodies actually need. Let’s take that knowledge and use it to stock our kitchens with whole foods that truly nourish, especially for us busy moms.

Best Whole Foods for Busy Moms

You don’t need fancy superfoods to feel your best. Here are simple, everyday foods that support hormone balance and energy:

• Leafy Greens – High in magnesium, calcium, and iron. Try spinach or kale in smoothies or sautéed with garlic.

• Fatty Fish – Salmon and sardines are rich in omega-3s and vitamin D.

• Whole Grains – Oats, brown rice, and quinoa keep your blood sugar steady and provide fiber and B vitamins.

• Nuts & Seeds – Almonds, chia, flax, and cashews provide healthy fats and minerals.

• Legumes – Beans and lentils are great sources of protein, iron, and fiber.

• Fruits – Bananas, oranges, and berries offer natural sugar with fiber and antioxidants.

• Dairy or Alternatives – Yogurt, cheese, or fortified almond milk for calcium and D.

But where does faith fit into all of this? The Bible offers powerful wisdom on how to nourish our bodies, and it's no surprise that God's design aligns with modern nutritional science.

How the Bible Supports a Wholesome, Hormone-Loving Diet

Scripture gives us beautiful guidance for nourishing our bodies. Leviticus 11 and Deuteronomy 14 outline clean verses unclean foods, offering a foundation for a wholesome diet. Many scholars point out that Biblical eating resembles a Mediterranean or pescatarian approach - rich in vegetables, fish, clean meats, and grains. God gave these dietary laws for our health, not restriction. He strengthens us through both spiritual and physical nourishment: "He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak" (Isaiah 40:29). Inspired by scripture and science, here are three simple habits to build your energy back up - without burnout.

Three Simple Habits to Support Hormone Health & Fight Fatigue

1. Get outside in the morning – Morning sunlight helps reset your circadian rhythm, supporting cortisol and melatonin balance.

2. Drink water before coffee – You dehydrate overnight, and starting with coffee can spike cortisol unnecessarily.

3. Go to bed by 10 p.m. – This aligns with your natural melatonin production. Screens off, lights low, and peace restored.

Your body is sacred, mama—and you’re worthy of nourishment. Let’s wrap this up with some encouragement and a reminder that healing is possible.

Rooted in Wisdom, Sustained by Grace

Mama, if you’ve made it this far - take a deep breath. This isn’t about being perfect or overhauling your entire pantry in one day. It’s about small, nourishing steps toward the vibrant, balanced life God designed you for. When we care for our bodies with wisdom, intention, and grace, we’re not just doing it for ourselves—we’re sowing seeds of wellness for our whole family.

Let this post be your starting point. Pick one new habit to try this week—whether it’s chewing your food more slowly, buying an organic veggie, or adding a magnesium-rich snack before bed. And as always, lean on God’s guidance through the process. You were made for strength, not survival. And He is with you every step of the way.